影子
"知足长乐", 很多人都常把它挂在嘴边...但,有多少人,真的能做到呢?人,总爱拿自己和身边的人做比较...眼里看到的总是别人拥有比自己好的东西...只会羡慕或嫉妒他人...往往为了自己比别人不足的地方而自怨自哎...最后只会弄到自己活得不开心...一直都活在别人的影子里...这样的人生,有意义吗?!
做比较,有那么好玩吗?!赢或输,有那么刺激吗?!不!一点也不好玩!!!从小,我都"被逼"地比到大了...一直以来,都有一个熟悉的"影子"在跟着我...小时候,就看谁比较"要风得风,要雨得雨",谁的成绩比较好...渐渐长大了,就看谁比较多人赞美,比较多人追求,谁的男朋友条件比较好...这些都还不够...还要拿根本不能预知的未来,前途来做比较...被这个"影子"死死缠着,真的好累好累...
之所以会觉得累,我想,应该是因为,我早已在不知不觉中,在这<做比较>的游戏里,从'被动'变成'主动'了吧...或许,我不应该太在意这"影子"的存在...应该只是为自己而活...
每个"明天",都是一个迷...是惊喜,或是晴天霹雳,亦或是无风无浪...每个人都会得到不同的答案...猜谜的过程中,或许不只是你一个人参加...但,其甜,酸,苦,辣,只有你一个人懂...
posted by dolphin @ 6:30 PM
4 Comments:
yeah, i understand how u feel coz experienced b4. the feeling of being always compared wif cousins and frenz. parents...always wants the best of their child, wanting us to live their dreams, pressuring us sometimes seems like forcing us. Society do not help much, just as 'kiasu'.
But, we as independent individuals must start to take charge of our lives, not be a 'puppet' of others. Freakie is right, don't mind too much. we are all born unequal with our own pros and cons. why try to be the perfect person that others wants?
discover where your potentials and interests are and pursue your dreams. Be who you are. There's only one 'you'. Buddha brought us to this world with a purpose. regain self-confidence and accomplish the purpose. you'll find satisfaction and happiness when u do. (pretty long comment i know la, but can't help it)
freakie : 对啊,对啊!你说得很对...可以知道你是谁吗?嘻嘻...
genxscorpio : thanks a lot for supporting my blogs n sending such a long n meaningful comment...hehe..ya u r right...we should live for ourselve...live for wat we sould b...right?
hi hi munkit...welcome to my blog...ur pic very scary ler...kakaka~~~nice to meet u here...:)
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